What Decision Confidence is about and how to connect with me here

I believe the reason why many of us are overwhelmed is because we over-think and we don’t trust ourselves enough. I believe our body tells us everything we need to know. It wants to thrive, be happy, and have purpose. Our mind? Not so much. It wants to survive, and it gets ‘creative’ in the worst kind of way (worry, for instance).

What helped me were my teachers and coaches who taught me how to tune into and trust my inner compass. And also what I learned from my very first ski lesson decades ago: don’t look at the whole mountain, just a foot ahead of you.

I learned that having clarity is less about learning more stuff and more about practice. That white-knuckled will power doesn’t work, but discipline does, and that there’s a big difference between the two. Small habits are much more important than big ones. Mindset is critical, and so is the energy we let in. Finding our internal rhythm supports ease. Goals help us relate to our values, and practice gives us our fuel.

I believe that deep down most of us know what we need to do, and that we have the muscle memory to access our younger willful adult Self who was bigger than life and took risks because we desired.

This is what Decision Confidence is about. Here, I write about the different ways to tune into and access that part of yourself to make the simple yet foundational decisions that align with your deepest values and your vision for how you want to experience your life.

There are three ways to join me here.

  1. Subscribe for free to my newsletter, and when I post, you’ll get it in your inbox.

  2. Become a paid subscriber at $8/month, and access my more personal writings and live breath tutorials, meditations, and practices that will boost your energy and immune system - these are easy ways to shift your physiology to support good health, clarity of consciousness, pure joy, and therefore solid decision making.

  3. Become a Founding Member at $250/year, and you get access to the above plus my courses and a 60 minute call with me.


I filled in these pages and moved a lot of my writing here at the end of July 2023 and then left for Peru for two weeks. In doing so, I seeded my intention to build my community on Substack, and my trip to Peru gave me play time to explore both the Sacred Valley of Peru and the Sacred Space I wanted to create here.

Me on top of Huaynu Picchu looking over Machu Picchu, Peru

It’s my hope that we can engage in real conversation that supports healing, strengthening, and easing into your soul’s desire to be who you are unapologetically. And for you to know that your decisions are sound. Authenticity and joy nags at you to stand up rather than to sit down, and it can make you feel a little crazy. You’re not. Okay. You are. But you’re not meant to be normal. It’s the battle between the two that breeds insecurity. This is where surrender becomes a beautiful word. Surrender into your crazy. (The truth is, you’re really not crazy. This big race to be normal is what makes you think you are)

To this end, more content will slowly go behind the paywall to create this sacred play space for those of us who are invested in this sort of connection.

If you’ve read this far, thank you. Please consider becoming a paid member and invite others. It will help me continue to write, create community, and make more impact. Let’s play together.

Love, Savitree

Savitree Kaur, I love your writing. You have a way of fine-tuned, nuanced NOTICING of your experience and sharing that actual experience with others. So many other writers bounce around concepts and ideas that generate shoulds. You have a way of taking me back to my own experience with a new clarity. There is such a vast difference between information and awareness. Carry on, do carry on. - Dan L.

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Savitree Kaur

I'm a breath & meditation instructor, Next Chapter coach, writer, and traveler looking for the most authentic and willful side of everyone.